Can schools influence student characters 拔尖vs補底：如何選校？

Do you think a school with strict discipline can help an active kid stay better focused, and an inquiry-based school help a shy child with better self-initiation? When choosing school, should this be taken into account? Should we look for a school that fits a child's own character, or one that helps 'balance out' the child? Parents with older children please share with us your experiences too. Thank you!

選校時，你會看看學校是否配合你孩子的性情嗎？你覺得不同類型的學校會否影響孩子成長時的性格發展，還是三歲已定八十？你會選擇一間與孩子性情吻合的學校（拔尖）還是一間令孩子在性情 / 學習上要多角度改變 / 適應的學校（補底）？ 孩子較年長的父母歡迎分享你的經驗！