I feel frustrated....

Actually I decide to plan my son to study IS, however after observing some of my friends (which is more richer than me, higher demanding towards their children and higher acedmic qualification), ALL of them also put send their children to Local schools.

When I talked to those friends about my decision, they also remind me that the Burden will be extremely large, and my son cannot return to Local school if he cannot catch up, and finanlly needs to study aboard.